Finally making the decision to wear these clothes and to honor myself took a lot of work. I had lagen-lust for many years before I threw caution and fear to the wind and just did it.
It is not without challenges and the fears do creep in from time to time. Just last week I decided it was time to wear my Jaqueline Crop top. I loved everything about it until I put it on.
I was so crushed. The ruffle that had come from a curtain seemed too much once I put it on. It felt clown-ish.
In that moment I had to make a decision. I had put thought, time, and resources into that top and I had loved it right up until that very moment.
I am happy to say that I chose to wear it any way. It is comfy and not one time while I wore it did I consider that perhaps I should not have worn it. In fact, I felt quite empowered. Whole. Real.
I am sharing this because I want to encourage YOU, my dear sister. Wear. It. Any. Way.
Please share your struggles and victories in the comments. I find we are our own best support system!
Yours,
Phyllis aka Queen Sheet
You are so brave and encouraging <3
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